Every woman should master the body language needed for everyday communication with men. Don’t get me wrong is not all about people liking you and approaching you because you look like a femme fatal. The most important thing is feeling good in your own skin, and that is the energy you want to send to the world.
These flirting techniques can be used if you want to show interest and encourage men to approach you. You would be surprised (or not) to hear how many men are confused and insecure when it comes to approaching to a beautiful and smart woman like you.
There are a few body language cues and nonverbal behaviors that women can use to show their interest for a man to approach them.
Most of the time we are not even trying so hard to show interest, our mind simply can control our body when it comes to nonverbal communication. From the other side, women can be confident around every other man, but when it comes to a hot neighbor or a friend of a friend that we see on a daily basis, we look like incompetent idiots. Certain things come with experience with men, but these little flirting techniques can be learned easily.
- Dance on Your Own
If you love to dance then, that’s all that matters. You don’t have to move like Jennifer Lopez or Shakira, all you have to do is enjoy the music. Even if a man is not a dancer, he will most definitely enjoy watching you. Dancing on your own, with a friend or with a man you like is the language on its own. However, be careful not to send him a wrong message while dancing with another man. That would be a wrong turn!
- Your Eyes Will Tell How You Feel
Your eyes can tell more than you would expect. If you find a man you like in the crowded room, share an eye contact with him, and he will most definitely know that you’ve been looking for him. Women who maintain an eye contact with a man for more than 3 seconds is giving a signal that man needs to approach her and start a conversation.
Laughing, giggling and smiling is an ultimate sign that a person is enjoying someone’s presence. A smile will also give you a confidant that you need when talking with a man you’ve been dreaming about. From the other side, don’t take yourself too seriously, show your true colors and dare to be funny and approachable. A smile is a great nonverbal sign that you are friendly and interested.
There are so many other sides that you are probably not even aware of, such as leaning towards a man you like, turning your body towards him in every occasion and touching your hair. We don’t have a full control of our body language, which is an ultimate language of our emotions which we are trying to hide.
However, what’s next? We have shown interest, but he is not approaching, or he is displaying a hot and cold behavior. What should you do? You probably spend too much time examining his body language and things he said to you, how he said it?
There are two simple things you can do. Tell him how you feel or move on. Waiting for a guy to make a move is a waste of your precious time. Tell him how you feel without any drama or desperation. There is nothing you can lose when you take a full control of sophisticated movements and things you say. Otherwise, the only thing you can lose is time wasted on someone who is not worth it.