How can our thoughts affect others? We barely have an understanding of how our thoughts affect us. How can what we think potentially have an impact on others?
How Our Thoughts Affect Us?
Let’s start with the basics – how our thoughts affect us? We often think about an unconscious part of us that we don’t fully understand. The unconscious part of us has a major impact on how we think, what we do and how we feel? On the other side, things that take most of our unconscious energy are the ones we spend the most time thinking about. In other words, whatever we think about we give energy to on both a conscious and unconscious level. It’s like a plant that we water and if we do – it will grow. If we don’t, it will die. The same goes for our thoughts. If we cultivate certain beliefs they will become true because we watch the world through that prism.
Do Thoughts Have Energy?
Thoughts do generate energy. When we say energy, we mean little photons which are particles of light. Albert Einstein discovered the law of the photoelectric effect and he won the Noble Prize in Physics in 1921 for his work.
How photons refer to thoughts? Here is an example. If you watch someone bullying someone, you might take a step back, you might feel disturbed even when you are not in danger. You take a step back almost as the other person is throwing something at you. What you are experiencing at this moment is toxic energy from another person? If you spend a sufficient amount of time with a friend who tends to gossip a lot, you will find yourself doing the same thing although you might hate gossiping. The negative energy of the other person can rub on you, and you can take over the behavior yourself.
On the other side, if you help someone with their grocery bag, the other person will likely help someone else that day.
Mental Energy is Energy
Think about hanging around with someone who is constantly negative, how do you feel around them? What’s also crucial to understand is that the negative mind can generate a negative outcome. The same goes for the positive outcome. We are what we think. What we think will grow as an outcome.
Pay Attention to the Energy of People Around You
Surround yourself with successful people if you want to become successful. We can damage or we can enhance others. People often generate their opinions about us based on how we make them feel.
We need to make sure we protect ourselves from negativity and negative people. Also, what we read and watch can influence how we feel, think, and what we choose to do in life. A lot of small decisions in our life can have a major impact on who we are and what we believe in.
What we think, what we say, and how we feel has an impact on others. It’s not a matter of transforming invisible energy but sharing energy with others through smiling, crying, complaining, or feeling grateful. If you have someone in your life who has a black cloud hanging over them, remember that it will have an impact on you as well. If you have someone creating a toxic environment for you, make sure you are not spending a lot of time around that person.
I Want to Help
Often, we do feel like we want to help the other person. We are aware that the person’s behavior is negative, and it has an impact on us, but we want to help them. If you truly care about that person that is completely fine and it is a noble thing to do. In the process make sure that you understand the impact they might have on you and your inner world. Also, make sure that you understand that people don’t change that easily, especially if when it comes to negative thoughts and behaviors. Negative thoughts can rub on us easier compared to positive ones. Helping someone overcome their negative world is going to be a long and hard road, and on the way remain positive. If you can, make sure the other person will seek professional help, you both will be better off.